Several years ago, PB had to get shots unexpectedly. While we waited for the nurse to come back in, she chanted "I'll do it tomorrow" over and over working herself into a frenzy. By the time the nurse came in (10 minutes later), we had to have another nurse come help hold her down so that the first nurse could give her a the shot. She screamed and cried and thrashed about. It was hell, and I was crying by the end of it. The Monster's next visit wasn't as bad, but was still hard.
So the next year, I didn't tell them they were getting shots. They didn't ask, and I didn't tell (I am a military wife you know
This year, I was upfront. I told them earlier in the week that they had doctor's appts, and that they would be getting shots. My mom offered to go with us, and I thought that would be great. Normally, I'm busy trying to help the child currently getting shots and I feel like I'm not "there" for the other one. But of course, this time, both of them took them like champs. Figures. The nurses have gotten smart, and they give the kids those frozen Popsicle tubes. They have them hold them where they are going to give the shot for a few minutes, and once the shots are done they can eat them. That helped A LOT!
I had quite a few chuckles in that room though. My son has a toe that makes a popping noise. It is one of his greatest pleasures in life to sit with his sisters, put his foot on them and make his toe pop. This elicits great shrieks of "ew gross, get it off me!" from the girls, which of course sends him into great gales of laughter. Being the mama, I was concerned and asked the doctor about it. She confirmed that it seemed okay, that we all have joints that popped. She then told him he shouldn't torment his sisters like that, as it was bad for his toe. He said darn, and she told him he would have to find another way to torment her. Much giggling ensued.
After it was all over, I had to praise them. I often tell my kids that sometimes we have to do things we don't like, and they may even hurt, but if it's necessary to stay healthy, we just have to suck it up and deal. And that is what they did with the shots, and I am so proud of them.
And so happy I don't need the flask to get through an appointment any longer.